oh well. hahahah! I have been busy. I think I'm always saying that.... I've been trying to find ways to simplify my life and reduce stress. I got done with the school semester and thought I would be able to breathe... But I got called to the Relief Society Presidency in my ward and haven't been as good at adjusting as probably the other girls in the presidency. I've been busy with that, among other things.
Anyways, somehow I came across this post on a blog. I don't know how i find these things sometimes.... And here is the original list from Glamour "30 things every woman should have and should know by the time she's 30." Hmmm that would be fun to see how I measure up now that I'm 30....
So here we go! I'll mark the ones that I feel like I have or know in blue :)
By 30, you should have …
1. One old boyfriend you can imagine going back to and one who reminds you of how far you've come
2. A decent piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in your family. (I don't think my 700 dollar couches from craig'slist count even though they weren't previously owned, I wouldn't consider them "decent")
3. Something perfect to wear if the employer or man of your dreams wants to see you in an hour.
4. A purse, a suitcase, and an umbrella you’re not ashamed to be seen carrying. (mine aren't anything spectacular but I'm not picky. they do the job.)
5. A youth you’re content to move beyond.
6. A past juicy enough that you’re looking forward to retelling it in your old age. :(
7. The realization that you are actually going to have an old age — and some money set aside to help fund it. (Man this one has been weighing on me heavily since my Human Development Class and since watching my parents deal with their aging bodies. I am glad to say I did put some money away for retirement, no matter how small it is)
8. An email address, a voice mailbox, and a bank account — all of which nobody has access to but you. (Yes! I LOVE LOVE that I have my own bank account. oh the freedom! And I love it!)
9. A résumé that is not even the slightest bit padded. (Mine could use some updating)
10. One friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry. (I have the best friends and sisters in the whole world!)
11. A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra.
12. Something ridiculously expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it. (I'm counting my camera, camera equipment and car for this one)
13. The belief that you deserve it. (still working on the belief that I deserve other things in my life)
14. A skin-care regimen, an exercise routine, and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don’t get better after 30. (I'm working on this one too. it's been a challenge)
15. A solid start on a satisfying career, a satisfying relationship, and all those other facets of life that do get better.
2. A decent piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in your family. (I don't think my 700 dollar couches from craig'slist count even though they weren't previously owned, I wouldn't consider them "decent")
3. Something perfect to wear if the employer or man of your dreams wants to see you in an hour.
4. A purse, a suitcase, and an umbrella you’re not ashamed to be seen carrying. (mine aren't anything spectacular but I'm not picky. they do the job.)
5. A youth you’re content to move beyond.
6. A past juicy enough that you’re looking forward to retelling it in your old age. :(
7. The realization that you are actually going to have an old age — and some money set aside to help fund it. (Man this one has been weighing on me heavily since my Human Development Class and since watching my parents deal with their aging bodies. I am glad to say I did put some money away for retirement, no matter how small it is)
8. An email address, a voice mailbox, and a bank account — all of which nobody has access to but you. (Yes! I LOVE LOVE that I have my own bank account. oh the freedom! And I love it!)
9. A résumé that is not even the slightest bit padded. (Mine could use some updating)
10. One friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry. (I have the best friends and sisters in the whole world!)
11. A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra.
12. Something ridiculously expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it. (I'm counting my camera, camera equipment and car for this one)
13. The belief that you deserve it. (still working on the belief that I deserve other things in my life)
14. A skin-care regimen, an exercise routine, and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don’t get better after 30. (I'm working on this one too. it's been a challenge)
15. A solid start on a satisfying career, a satisfying relationship, and all those other facets of life that do get better.
By 30, you should know …
1. How to fall in love without losing yourself. (I hope I know this.... correct me if I'm wrong!)
2. How you feel about having kids. (this one changes periodically as I get older)
3. How to quit a job, break up with a man, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.
4. When to try harder and when to walk away.
5. How to kiss in a way that communicates perfectly what you would and wouldn’t like to happen next.
6. The names of the secretary of state, your great-grandmothers, and the best tailor in town.
7. How to live alone, even if you don’t like to.
8. Where to go — be it your best friend’s kitchen table or a yoga mat — when your soul needs soothing.
9. That you can’t change the length of your legs, the width of your hips, or the nature of your parents.
10. That your childhood may not have been perfect, but it’s over.
11. What you would and wouldn’t do for money or love.
12. That nobody gets away with smoking, drinking, doing drugs, or not flossing for very long.
13. Who you can trust, who you can’t, and why you shouldn’t take it personally.
14. Not to apologize for something that isn’t your fault. (Boo! this is a work in progress as well hahaha!)
15. Why they say life begins at 30
1. How to fall in love without losing yourself. (I hope I know this.... correct me if I'm wrong!)
2. How you feel about having kids. (this one changes periodically as I get older)
3. How to quit a job, break up with a man, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.
4. When to try harder and when to walk away.
5. How to kiss in a way that communicates perfectly what you would and wouldn’t like to happen next.
6. The names of the secretary of state, your great-grandmothers, and the best tailor in town.
7. How to live alone, even if you don’t like to.
8. Where to go — be it your best friend’s kitchen table or a yoga mat — when your soul needs soothing.
9. That you can’t change the length of your legs, the width of your hips, or the nature of your parents.
10. That your childhood may not have been perfect, but it’s over.
11. What you would and wouldn’t do for money or love.
12. That nobody gets away with smoking, drinking, doing drugs, or not flossing for very long.
13. Who you can trust, who you can’t, and why you shouldn’t take it personally.
14. Not to apologize for something that isn’t your fault. (Boo! this is a work in progress as well hahaha!)
15. Why they say life begins at 30
Whelp! there you have it! Looks like I have my work cut out for me! Let's revisit this list when I'm 40, shall we!? should be good times :)
