Once in a while I get the opportunity to date guys who have been married before and are now divorced. There are a few things that can be huge turn offs in dating these guys. (not all but some do these things and it just makes them seem so unattractive)

- Guys that bash on their ex's. I get that you don't like each other all the time but there comes a point when you have to grow up, forgive and move on.

- When they don't take accountability for their part in a relationship/marriage or an ongoing argument with the ex.

- Guys who say they have no idea what happened, just one day she said she wanted a divorce. Really?! You were that oblivious in your relationship? And I should want to date you why?

- Still can't seem to manage a "working" relationship with the ex (ie: calling the cops when the ex is late to drop off the kids, name calling, etc. Drama!)