Lessons from "The Bachelor"

confession:
I just watched the bachelor. hahaha! Despite my decision to not watch it this season, I couldn't resist when my sister in law told me how good it was, not because of all the great girls or anything noble and good (because who watches the bachelor for that...? hahaha) but because there are so many crazy chicks and there is so much drama! and i agree completely. I'm hooked. there are so many psychos I have to watch it!

There are a lot of crazy weird girls and it is really juicy but I just watched the second episode tonight. One girl, I think her name is Jenna (It doesn't matter because she is gone, and here is why) told Ben, "I feel like I'm a guy in how I act, and so like being around girls all the time is very uncomfortable at times... I'm not like a girl. If that makes any sense.." REALLY?!
Did you just say you are like a guy and not like a girl!? (hand to forehead) I'm not quite sure why she would say something like that! Guys don't want to date guys! They want to date girls!
Needless to say she no longer on the show.... I wonder why!?

Don't try to be a guy or like a guy or try to convince a guy that you are like a guy! I know there is this idea that it's super cool to be "one of the guys" and hope that one of them will like you... but that only happens in the movies! In the end a guy wants to date a girl that is like a girl, unless he is gay....

Sometimes I can't figure out how to get videos to work on here so here is a link. just skip towards the end.

http://www.hulu.com/watch/316936/the-bachelor-week-2